We do a lot of things that we come to regret, and find ourselves remembering the not-so-good days, some of us with anger, others with shame and some with resentment. Why would we recall bad moments to our memories and feelings when their already gone? We got through it, it is officially over but in our heads something is not ok with it. And I am not going to teach you how to overcome old problems, because if you do so you are living it more intensely in order to understand it, and that is not what we want.
I want you to let it go once and for all, understand that it is holding you back of doing better in life, and I really want you to do great. I want you to be as successful as you can be.
I want you to see the past as a story, a story that you tell to others, a story that others tell to you, a nothing but a story. Once you’re over the book is closed and you are back to life. Now tell me why would you keep reading the pages that make you feel horrible? And tell me, why would you believe that story?
The only truth is the one you believe. If you believe in that story it will keep happening. You see, the person in the book is a character of the story, you are no longer that person.
Change your book, start a new story, make it yourself! Don’t base yourself on the last book, create from the blank, get inspired and create, draw your beautiful white colour stories and day by day colour in with your heart.
You right now, are in a city with a certain amount of money alone or not, healthy or not, fit or not - but that means nothing because you are not a tree - you can move and you can change and long as you want to!
'I learned that right and wrong are perspectives and emotions are like the weather, they come and go.'
'If I offered you a pizza, assuming you are not homeless, how likely would you be ok with sharing?'
"Being vulnerable can be scary, but I know that if I don’t push myself out of the shelf I will be just another girl."
Progress, enjoyment and sleep are just a few that will keep you on a good track.
Isn’t it just amazing to be able to not get it right and continue regardless? Even final exams are not final, there’s life after that.
'negative emotion can be easily overcome and remain meaningless to you.'
'Luck increases with preparation, but it also increases with enthusiasm and believing.'
Because no one knows what they are doing.
'Let them say “I told you so” because sometimes they will also hear “you were wrong!”'